01/16/2024 - BISEXUAL
I’m bisexual and I just came out to my father as bisexual and all he said was your full of crap and dosent believe that I’m bisexual when it’s clearly true and I Already told my mother that I’m bisexual and she’s fine with it and it hurts to know my father dosent believe me
From Bri
First of all thank you for messaging and wow I admire how brave you are. That takes some serious courage to be true to yourself and speak your truth and I am just such a huge fan right now. I am so glad that your mom was able to accept you and that you have that source of support. I am sorry you're hurting so much though, having someone not believe you can sometimes feel even worse than having a "good" or "bad" response. I feel like being dismissed can be really difficult because when you're coming out most people want to feel seen and that is the farthest from it. However, I really hope that your dad comes around and maybe that was just his gut reaction of being caught off guard. Have you talked since that happened? Maybe your mom might be willing to talk to him about it and help explain it to him. I really hope things get better once he's had a little bit of time to think about it a bit more. And again, congratulations for putting yourself out there, I am so excited for you and for being you because you is pretty great. From Kimberly
Thank you for reaching out again! I appreciate the updates, and am here to help. I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that things are going better by the time you receive this message. I don't think there is much that could be done to change your father's mind, but perhaps there's ways to gain more insight into where he's coming from, if that's something you'd be curious about. Maybe you could try having a discussion about it and ask him some questions. Is it a religious belief? Was he raised to think that way? Has he had negative experiences with bisexual people in the past? Another potential factor that might be playing a role in your father's opinion about you, could be your age. Of course, I don't know what that would be, nor would I ask, but it is important to be mindful of the fact that the younger you are, the less important others may view your sexuality. To clarify, I am not saying that you are invalid. What I am saying is that your sexual and dating preferences could likely be not as relevant to your life as they would be to an older person, simply because dating and sex is typically not something that younger teenagers or children are all too involved in. Young minors are typically not seen as very sexually active or relationship-experienced people. So, maybe that could be contributing to your dad's opinion. Or, maybe another factor could be your past dating experiences. If you've never dated, or haven't dated much before, your dad may be confused as to how you would know your own dating or sexual preferences enough to declare yourself as bisexual without much experience with both sexes. It is a concept that does take a lot of self-exploration. I'm not quite sure what to say here, because your father's opinion sounds pretty unchangeable. But I hope that maybe you guys will be able to have a productive discussion about it, and that you can still have support from him in other areas of your life. Hope this helps! :) Sincerely, Kimberly From May
Hi! I'm May. I'm so glad you wrote to us. That sounds like a really hard situation. I'm sorry your dad feels that way. It's very understandable that you would be upset about how he reacted, your feelings are valid and it's okay to feel that way. Ultimately, the only opinion that really matters is your own. Just because your dad expressed that he doesn't believe that you're bisexual doesn't mean that it's true. If you have any friends that also identify as LGBTQ+, I think it would be great for you to connect with them and share your story with them. If you don't, there is a group called Triple Point that I think you would enjoy. They have groups for high school students and middle school students who identify as a part of the LGBTQ+ community and it is a great way to make friends and connect with people. If you want to talk more, I'm here Wednesdays from 4-7, and other volunteers are here throughout the week 4-9 Monday to Thursday and 4-7 on Fridays. Here is more information on Triple Point: https://www.facebook.com/VancouverTriplePoint/ From David
Hi my name's David and I want to thank you for reaching out. I know that takes a lot of bravery and I appreciate it. I'm also really sorry to hear that you're going through this situation but you should know how brave you are that you were even able to tell your parents. A lot of people can't go that far and even though you might have known how your father would feel you still told him which is remarkable. Your father may just need some time to understand who you are and that you might not fit into the vision he has created. A lot of parents imagine their children doing certain things or being certain things but that doesn't always happen and thats ok. If you feel comfortable, you could consider having a calm and honest conversation with your father about your feelings and experiences. Share your perspective and try to express how important it is for you to have his understanding and acceptance. You can also reach out to a counselor or therapist if you need more help. again I want to thank you for reaching out and I hope things go well with your father in the future! From ASH
Hi there. I’m really sorry to hear that coming out to your father didn’t go well. You don’t deserve to have such an important part of your identity dismissed and demeaned, especially by a parent. Your feelings are completely valid, it’s genuinely heart wrenching to face that sort of betrayal from someone you love. You are very strong for persevering, and I’m proud of you. I and all the other volunteers here at TeenTalk would love to chat over message or call if you ever want to talk through your feelings in more depth, and we’re always happy to respond to more Ask Peppy’s from you :] <3 Ash FROM A
Hello, thank you for reaching out! I just want to start of with telling you how brave you are for coming out to your father, even though things didn't turn out how you hoped. In the end, it still must have taken a lot of courage for you to share that with him. I'm sorry to say that I don't know if much can be done to change your father's opinion if he is dead set on his views. If you're comfortable with talking with your mother about how your father's reaction has impacted you, perhaps she can help in offering some close support. Something that could be a factor to your father's reaction could his lack of knowledge on the topic, or a lack of perspective. Both of which are not your fault and does not justify any hurtful words he's said to you. All in all, you should be proud of who you are! And I hope that things get better for you. From Eric
Thank you for reaching out. I'm sorry to hear that that happened. I would maybe try asking your mom to talk to your dad about the situation and try to get him to understand you. Also try to give him some time, he may just need it to understand. From Dahlia
Hello, thank you for sharing this even though this situation must feel frustrating for you. It took a lot of courage for you to come out, so be kind to yourself and do not believe the hurtful things people might say of you because of your identity. Your father probably just wants to deny that you are bisexual, and instead of accepting it he let out his confusion and anger at you. Despite this, I am glad your mother is okay with your identity because it can get lonely if it feels nobody is trying to understand you. With time your father might accept your identity, but if he doesn't it is not your fault. I hope your father will continue to show love and support for you even if he might feel frustrated right now. Please reach out to let us know if anything in the situation changes. We are here for you. From Anna
Thank you so much for reaching out again. I am sorry to hear that, but you are so courageous and brave for coming out to your father. I am really glad that your mother believes you. Depending on what you want to do next and what you are comfortable with, you could possibly talk to your father about it with your mother accompanying you for some extra support? Please don't let any of your father's words get to you, and I hope he becomes more understanding soon - it is possible that he might need some time to process things. Another thing you could also possibly try is to talk to your mother about your father's reaction and see if she would be able to offer any insights about how best you could talk to your father about things? Again, you are already doing amazing and I hope that everything works out! From Stella
I'm really sorry to hear that your father isn't accepting of you. As a part of the LGBTQ+ community myself, I understand on a personal level what it feels like not to be supported by your own family, and it really really sucks that you have to endure that. My parents weren't accepting either when I came out to them, so I completely understand where you're coming from. You definitely aren't alone. Something I personally found extremely helpful during that time in my personal journey was attending meetings for my school's pride club. I would highly recommend doing a little research, and seeing if your school has something similar. It can really help when we're in periods of self discovery like this to have like-minded people around you. Developing a support system is one of the most productive things you can do in terms of taking care of your mental health. Coming from someone who's gone through your exact predicament, I can tell you that it gets better. I know it doesn't feel like it will, but with time, it will. You just have to wait a little bit. We're always here if you need some additional support, or want to reach out and talk. Have a lovely day <3 From Mia
Hello! Thank you for writing to us. I'm sorry that your father does not believe that you are bisexual. That must be difficult to hear after being vulnerable and I am sorry for that. Maybe sitting down with him and talking about it could help? I know it sounds scary, but maybe it could give him more insight on you and who you are. Of course, you know your father better than I do, so the choice is up to you. Don't hesitate to reach out to us! We hope to hear from you. 12/06/2023 - BI
I’m nervous to tell my father I’m bisexual and I’ve already told my mother and my two sisters that I am they were ok with it but my parents are divorced and i think my dad will be upset at me because I’m bisexual I’m nervous about coming out as bisexual to my family I feel like they will see me as a disappointment.
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Hey, thank you so much for reaching out. It's completely normal to feel nervous about coming out, especially when it involves sharing such personal information with family members. It's important to remember that everyone's reaction can be different, and your experience with your mother and sisters suggests that there is understanding and acceptance within your family. When talking to your dad be honest and open about your feelings, and express that you value your relationship with him. However be prepared that sometimes people just need some time to adjust to the situation. From Dahlia
Hello, thank you for sharing this even though it makes you nervous. Sharing your identity can be difficult. I had a friend who was overwhelmed when telling her family her identity; but they ended up being supportive of her. I know this isn't always the case with everyone and their families, but people who love you will look past your identity, even if it might be shocking to them. Your mom and two sisters were okay with you being bi, so even if your father seems bothered by your identity I hope that having support from your mom and two sisters makes you feel less alone. While you think about coming out to your family remember to take care of yourself. You are not a disappointment; you are a person who has brought happiness into other people's live's, even if you may not know it. I hope you take care of yourself during this time, and I hope that there will always be people in your life who appreciate you for who you are; that way, you can be comfortable and remember that you deserve love and kindness. If you decide to tell your father please reach out to Teentalk again and let us know how it went. We hope the best for you. From Anna
Hi, I know that sharing these things can be difficult, and thank you for reaching out. I am happy that your mother and two sisters are okay with you being bi, maybe you can talk to them to gain some insight into how your dad might react and figure out the best way to come out to him? No matter what happens, please remember that you deserve love and appreciation, and that you are not a disappointment. I am rooting for you, and please do not hesitate to reach out in the future! From QUINN
Hi, my name is Quinn. Thanks so much for reaching out, it takes a lot of bravery to do that! I understand how stressful it can be to come out to family, and I’m so happy for you that your mom and sisters are accepting. If your think that your father is going to get upset if you tell him, then I would either not tell him, or create a plan for doing it, and you could include you mom in this. Like you could tell him in a public setting, on a call, or with your mom, or anyone that you would like to support you. And also what you would do if he does not react well like where you would stay, or how you would navigate that. I don’t know your situation so I can’t tell you what would happen, but it’s good to be prepared especially since you think he would get upset. You could probably find some clues in how he talks about lgbtq+ people regularly, if you are unsure about how he feels. Also know that your worth is not attached to how other people think of you, if he thinks you’re a disappointment, then that’s on him, not your fault. I really hope it goes well for you! If you want to talk more than you can call us, our number is 13603972428, and I’m here Monday 4-7! - Quinn From Kimberly
Hello, I'm Kimberly! Thank you for reaching out, I'm here to listen and I know it must take a lot of courage to contact a random stranger on a support line to talk about what's going on. Although I personally don't have firsthand experience of what it'd be like to be in that position because I have always been straight myself, I sympathize with your story, and I hope you're able to experience a positive outcome. That does sound very nerve-wracking, and it's okay to feel that way. I noticed you mentioned that your mom and sisters said that they were okay with it. I'm not sure what your household situation is like, but perhaps you could try having a family meeting with all of them, because then you'd have the support of your other family members there to help you out in case your dad starts getting upset. What makes you believe that your dad would see you as a disappointment? Has he said or done anything explicitly homophobic? Is he part of a religion that doesn't support gay or bisexual people? How does he feel about your teenage dating and relationships in general? What do you think the conversation with him would be like? What would you plan to say? If there's a lot and you're feeling overwhelmed about remembering it all, maybe you could jot down some bullet points on a notecard. To help ease your nerves about speaking with him, perhaps you could roleplay with a friend or supportive family member, practicing what you plan to say ahead of time. If he does turn out to be upset with you, how severe would the consequences be? Do you think you could talk it out and remain on peaceful terms, despite disagreeing on your views about sexual orientations? If you were able to talk it out, what would you say? Sometimes it's easy for our brains to get more worked up about situations than they should. This is not to say that your feelings are invalid or blown out of proportion, but just a friendly reminder that sometimes in life, things may turn out better than we'd expect them to. Are you on good terms with your dad? If so, then it'd actually be pretty unlikely for him to stop respecting you simply over just that personal aspect of your life- unless he's blatantly very homophobic. But then again, I don't know much about your situation or what he is like, so I can't say much about that. Another thing you could possibly do is ask him what he thinks about a friend or other person you know who is bisexual, if that's applicable. What he thinks of other people being bisexual may give you some helpful clues for what he might think about your own bisexuality. Thank you for reaching out, I hope this helps! I wish you the best of luck, and I'd love to hear back from you, if you are comfortable. Sincerely, Kimberly From I
Hi there! Thank you for messaging us, it can be difficult to verbalize and talk to someone about your struggles and emotions. I'm really glad that things went well with your Mom and siblings! Coming out is scary, especially when you don't know how family will react. I don't know your father, so I can't be sure how he'll react. You could try writing a letter to him coming out, explaining your concerns and worries about how he'll react. This will give the both of you space to process and react. But waiting or choosing not come out at all are options as well! You're in a tricky situation and sometimes the best option is to wait until you have more information. You're always welcome to call/message/text us and talk through your feelings, or just about how your day is going. I hope that everything goes well, and you're able to figure things out. <3 I 10/05/2023 - How do I know if i'm trans?
For over a year, I've thought that i'm transgender, but I don't want to make an assumption before i'm sure. For feedback purposes, I am under 16 years old and I believe i'm FTM. I've always had better boy friends than girl and I hate how my chest and body looks. I've had people use he/him pronouns on me and it makes me feel better about myself. If i were to come out and then say i'm wrong, that would be really awkward.
From Mia
Hello! Thank you for writing to us. I understand that this must be confusing for you to be going through. Remember that you don't have to have everything figured out yet. You still have time to get to know yourself. Don't be too hard on yourself. Do what will make you happy in the moment! Thank you for reaching out! If you would like to talk about this more. don't hesitate to reach out! From Dahlia
Hi there. Thank you for sharing. I know it must feel overwhelming and confusing to feel these things. Remember that the people here at Teentalk care for you no matter what. Questioning your identity is something that can be really confusing. I saw a testimony about a transgender person a few weeks ago and they said that it is important to find the root of why you believe you are trans or why you aren't comfortable in your own body. Despite what you decide, you are loved. Please feel free to share with us what you decide if you feel comfortable doing so. We are here for you. From Bri
Hi there :) What a good question :) I think this question is so absolutely valid. Have you ever heard of the gender-bread? Its a worksheet: https://www.publichealthpost.org/databyte/genderbread-person/ Society really teaches us that gender as "definite" but in reality, things are more on a spectrum. The first part of the genderbread person is "identity" and thats how manly or womanly you feel on the inside. And then the second one is your gender expression as how feminine or masculine you feel, and that is how you present to others and how your dress/demeanor/etc. comes across. And then the next one is biological sex and while that may sound straightforward to some, but in reality there are people with both genitalia (who are described as intersex), there are people with both male and female genetics, there are people who have different amounts of female or male physical traits. And then there is who you are sexually or romantically attracted to on the genderbread worksheet as well. It can be really difficult when you are soul search to figure out where you fit on that genderbread. I also want you to know that it is totally okay to come out and evolve in how you identify. There are also people who identify as gender fluid and one moment could feel on one part of the spectrum and then another moment they could be the complete opposite and that is okay. Hopefully you are able to make sure you stay safe if you choose to come out. Another great resource in the community is called Triple Point and they offer support groups in a non-descript location and they are a really great support for as you are processing this. I am so glad you reached out and I hope you check back in so we know how things are going for you :) From David
It's completely okay to have the feelings and thoughts you're experiencing and you're really brave for reaching out! Figuring out your gender identity is pretty complex and it's totally normal to have uncertainties and nervousness. You should be able to explore your gender identity without pressure or judgment. You could take the time to explore yourself. Your thoughts, feelings, and what you want to be. If you want you can talk with a trusted friend, adult or counselor. If you're really struggling I'd recommend reaching out for professional help from a therapist or doctor you can trust. People who really support you will be ok with your decision, whatever it is. You can't really be "wrong" about these things because it's about you! From Eric
Hey, thank you for reaching out! It's totally okay to not be sure yet. These things can take time. If you're still not 100% certain, then I would advise to continue trying to find yourself until you are ready. From Jen
Hello! Thank you for sending a message to teen talk and for having the courage to share. I’ve never personally had this experience before but I do know people close to me who are trans or went through a time of questioning. If using he/him pronouns make you feel confident and happy then I think you should do whatever makes you happy. Whether he/him or different pronouns you can always change what pronouns you use if you decide different ones suit you better. I’m female and in middle school I had mostly guy friends and I also really hated how getting older meant my body would change since I prefer not having defined features. I like being a girl but I also like to be a bit androgynous. During dance class I pretended to be a boy so I could dance with my friend who was a girl and sometimes I get misgendered and it doesn’t bother me since sometimes that’s the look I’m going for. However that is just my personal experience and everyone is different. If you were to come out and change your mind that is completely fine. It may be uncomfortable or awkward like you were worried about but it also sounds like there are people in your life who will accept you whatever pronouns or identity you choose to have. You deserve to do what makes you feel happy and the most true to yourself. It’s okay to question and okay to change your mind. You also don’t have to choose one or the other, some people are gender fluid which means sometimes they may identify more with different genders at different times or no specific gender at all. There are many resources that can help you to read or watch people’s experiences or learn about different identities. It’s also okay to not identify as anything. You’re you and that’s what matters! Whoever you are isn’t defined only by words so whatever you choose to do just be true to yourself and you can’t go wrong. 03/22/2023 - Housing
I am homeless lgbtq
FROM MAGGIE
hey there! thanks so much for reaching out <3 it sounds like you're dealing with a lot right now, so i hope you're doing okay. even with everything going on, i hope that you've still been able to take some time for yourself. know that there are people who care about you and want to support you in any way possible! here are some resources that might offer some support! if you're 9-17 years old, you can reach out to the Oak Bridge Youth Shelter at 360.891.2634 or 1.888.979.4357 (open 24/7), and if you're 18 or over, you can call the Housing Solutions Center Hotline at 360.695.9677 (open monday to friday 9 am-5 pm, and weekends and holidays 11 am - 2 pm). they'll help make sure that you have a safe place to sleep. you can also find more resources/support on this page, and feel free to let us know if you have any questions about anything! when i'm struggling, it can be comforting to talk to someone who has once gone through the same thing. here are some lgbtq+ resources as well! specifically, if you're 13-18 years old and in the Clark County area, Triple Point is a really good resource to meet peers who can relate to your experiences (call 360.695.1325 for more information!). sometimes, it can be nice to talk to someone who might understand a little more than the average person. and finally, if you ever just need a friend to chat with, or an open ear to listen to anything you're dealing with, reach out to us! we're here to listen <3 - maggie FROM LESLIE
hey there! that sounds like a really rough situation, so i just want to let you know that you're incredibly strong. along with that, there are always people willing to help. some resources i'd recommend for you to check out are Oak Bridge Youth Shelter if you're 17 or younger (their numbers are (360) 891-2634 and (888) 979-4357). if you're over 18 then the number (360) 695-9677 should be able to help as well! as for some places where you can get lgbtq+ support, Triple Point is a great place in Vancouver for that. our website has a bunch of resources that can help you find a safe space. if you need some more help or someone to talk to, you can reach out to us during 4-9pm monday through thursday and 4-7 on fridays for some faster responses :) FROM MAKAYLA
Hello, thank you for reaching out to us. I'm so sorry to hear that it sounds very hard to deal with. How are you coping with your situation? The most important thing to remember is that things will get better. You have to keep looking forward. Do you have anything to look forward to? 03/16/2022 - MY SEXUALITY
Okay, so I'm not sure of my sexuality yet, but, I THINK I might be Bi. But, my mom thinks that m|m or w|w are, for the lack of a better word, disgusting. This got me thinking, IF I WAS Bi, would she accept me (Mainly because I'm not convinced on my sexuality as I might not be into girls, and am probably straight)? And, my dad too. He thinks Homosexuality is a nonsense and a waste of time.
FROM MAGGIE
First of all, I want to emphasize that it's okay to not be sure. Life is all about growth and change as experiences come and go, and you might not know exactly who you are at times, but that is completely okay - in fact, it's a good thing! It shows that you're always listening to yourself and staying true to what you believe. So even though it may feel kind of weird now that you don't "know" yourself, trust me - you do know yourself, and even so, it's absolutely normal to be a little unsure. I can't speak for your parents, but I know this from my own experience - if I say that I hate something (like chocolate milk - true story), it just means I'm a little scared of it, and unfamiliar with it. Once I tried chocolate milk though, I fell in love with it! Same with your parents - they could just be scared. They might not truly know what homosexuality and the LGBTQ+ spectrum entails. No matter what happens, remember that even though they love you doesn't mean they have the right to invalidate who you are. Your parents love you, and I trust that no matter what, they will learn to accept you for your identity. Ultimately, don't feel pressured to "decide" your sexuality immediately. Exploring yourself takes time, and there is absolutely no rush! In that same vein, no matter what you discover about yourself, it's okay to not share it with your parents right away. Give yourself time to meet the new side of you that you just uncovered, and share it with your parents only when you feel ready. Again, there is no rush at all - don't ever feel like you "have" to do anything. Finally, I want to thank you. Sexuality can be very personal and sensitive, so I'm honored that you felt like you could trust us with this. I wish you the best of luck! FROM DAVID
Hello, my names David, thank for reaching out to TeenTalk! It's really important that you're comfortable in your own body and you understand yourself. you still have your whole life to figure out what you want and who you want to be with. It's tough that you have parent's that might not support you. You can try talking with them so they become familiar about how you feel and there are tools online to help people understand LGBTQ+ if they might not yet fully grasp it. Here are two resources:
FROM VALERIE
Hello! I'm so glad you decided to reach out, sexuality is a tough thing to navigate fs. While I am 100% not able to tell you if your mom and dad would accept you with open arms, I can say sexuality is a big part of a person's life, so figuring out how to talk to them about it is a great idea. If you're not sure about yourself but wanted to see how they might react, you could talk about a friend being gay or bi. It's really hard for a lot of people to understand things they didn't grow up talking about or being accepting of, so it can take some getting used to. Trying to keep a calm conversation and sharing points of view are how I've best navigated talking to someone about something they say is nonsense. You know your parents best so I'm confident however you decide to approach it will work out :)) I'm sorry you have to be put in this situation; I really hope however it pans out they accept you in the end because you deserve no less. -- Valerie FROM RIKA
Hey there! I'm so glad that you decided to write to us! I think you're pretty brave for trying to find out more about your identity, and doing so is definitely not nonsense or a waste of time. Unfortunately, based on the information you've provided about your mom, it doesn't seem like she would be that supportive if you were to let her know that you are, or you might be bisexual. However, people can change, and sometimes their opinions may change when they're confronted with a situation they never expected to face, which may offer them a new perspective on things. I can't say for sure how your mom would react though, since I don't know her personally. Do you have any ideas why your mom isn't so supportive of gay or lesbian people (like are there any religious factors or maybe things in her upbringing)? Speaking more with your mom about why she thinks what she thinks about the LGBTQ+ community may help you better understand where she's coming from. It may also help you figure out how to approach the subject with your mom if you wish. Whatever you decide to do, remember that it's okay if you're not completely sure of your sexuality. One's sexuality is a fluid thing, but that doesn't make your orientation now (or the label that you think best fits you) any less valid. :) 09/14/2021 - Who am I?
Hi I am 12 years old in 7th grade.
I was wondering who am I? My friends are choosing their pro-nouns and sexuality but I don’t know who to be! What do I do!? FROM BRI
Hi!
I’m so glad you decided to message us :) I think the bravest thing someone can say is “I don’t know yet”. I feel like your feelings start developing but change a lot and that’s pretty normal. I think that’s why a lot of people default to “girl” or “boy” is because it takes a lot of soul searching to know how you feel for sure. Even if you don’t know yet, it’s perfectly fine to try things on. Like see how different pronouns end sexualities feel. Do you like it? Do some fit or do others not feel like you? It’s perfectly valid to feel one way one moment but different the next. I’d love to hear if you’ve thought about any identities or if you’d like to know more/have questions about any of the identities. this graphic is pretty helpful and maybe you fill it out based on the day, it can change. And if it all feels overwhelming, you can always just educate yourself about the different identities and decide later. You can be a human, and that is always enough. How do you feel about your friends choosing identities? I just want you to know how proud I am of you for reaching out to us. We are also available if you want to call/text/messenger us. My shift is on Thursdays from 6-9pm, you can just ask for me! :) Good luck on learning more about you and I hope you message us back! -Bri FROM VANESSA
Hey!!!! Thank u so much for reaching out to us we love love love hearing from u ! but yea totally i get that sometimes it’s hard to know who you are yet and mostly in a world where being yourself is starting to be totally accepted. It’s okay to not know who you are yet or your pronouns or any of that. this is something that takes time and even tho it’s hard and so confusing to not know who you are yet i promise it gets better. you can try to experiment with different pronouns for now and see which one sticks with you or maybe with friends. you can do it i believe in you seriously u realizing that you want to be someone different is such a huge step and recognizing it is even more important. you can do it!!!! im cheering you on!!!! i work on tuesdays from 6-9 if u wanna talk more :) i’m cheering you on!!!!! -Vanessa FROM DAVID
Hi! I hope your having a great day and thanks for sending your message! Well, to answer your question your you! Just because your friends are choosing pronouns or sexualities' doesn't mean you have to too. It takes time to find out who you are and who you want to be and explore yourself. You shouldn't feel pressured to be someone you're not :) - David |